The Sinking Boat
Several times the word "lost" is translated "dying" or "perishing," reflecting the meaning of the word—a destruction that separates. As death is that separation from the world of the living through the perishing of the body, so it can be seen as a destruction or ruining.
25They came to him, and woke him up, saying, “Save us, Lord! We are dying!” Matthew 8:25
Here the disciples, when confronted with this storm over which they had no control nor for which they had any solution, called to Jesus to save them, for they were "dying." It is this word, "to perish," in the present middle conjugation. The middle voice indicates reflexive action, or something done to oneself or for oneself's own benefit. Present tense means it is ongoing.
The disciples were in effect saying that they were "destroying themselves." They were causing themselves to perish, or causing their own ruin.
They had followed Him onto the boat (Matthew 8:23), when this storm arose to endanger them all. Apparently they couldn't do anything to prevent the boat from sinking but were only making it worse (Matthew 8:24). They pleaded with Jesus to save them, most likely because He was the One Who had brought them along. They couldn't believe He was sleeping in the midst of such danger!
The Lord, true to His testimony, saved them from perishing. Even though they were destroying themselves, He came to their rescue.
26He said to them, “Why are you fearful, O you of little faith?” Then he got up, rebuked the wind and the sea, and there was a great calm. Matthew 8:26
He reveals that they should have trusted things to be fine, because it was He Who had led them into this situation. He would provide and they had no need to fear the world because it was at His command they were there. He confirmed this by calming the storm to allay their fears, even though according to Christ they were never in any danger.
They then began to understand better Who this was in their presence:
27The men marveled, saying, “What kind of man is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?” Matthew 8:27
Have you found yourself in a dire situation because you have followed the Lord? Does it seem you are destroying yourself amidst the onslaught from the outside world? Trust Who has called you into this new life, and Who it is Whom you have decided to follow. It is Christ Jesus the Lord, He Who holds the world in His hand, in Whom all things are held together (Colossians 1:16-17).
If He has called you, then you will survive. Whether the storms rage and your boat is filled with water, or the sea remains calm, the result will be the same. You will be saved by His presence with you. His sleeping in the boat is the sign that you should remain calm as well, not fearing the wrath of the world. He is able to still the storm with a word, or to bring you to the other side of the lake amidst the surging waves. Either way, you will be saved because you are with Him.
Don't destroy yourself by trying to meet the attacks of the world on your own, but come to Him and see His face as it is toward your problems from following Him. He will see you through to the end!